On Being Left Out
Adam Phillips: On FOMO, 20 May 2021
“... winner who cannot in fact swim, and by us, the readers.The joke, if it is a joke, is that heroism may be a function of incompetence. Or that we only have winners because we are losers. Or that being the best at something is being unable to do it. Or, indeed, that we have the wrong idea about what it is to swim, or to win a race, or even about what a race ... ”