Extreme Understanding 
Jenny Diski
As any adult can tell you – or any adult not given over entirely to mawkish and convenient notions of innocence – children are born spies. Every parent (previously an independent individual pursuing their own interests and desires) knows: a child arrives and it starts to watch you. You are never alone again, not really. There is someone who has arrived and will not go away; who not only watches you but also possesses their own consciousness, has views, puts two and two together and understands more or less than you want them to, but either way distorts the picture you have of your life.
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Jenny Diski’s book on the Sixties – called The Sixties – comes out in July.
Other articles by this contributor:
The Khugistic Sandal · Jews & Shoes
Seriously Uncool · Susan Sontag
A keen horseman with a new pair of green suede chaps is guaranteed to ride into the sunset · A Slight and Delicate Creature: The Memoirs of Margaret Cook
Oh, Andrea Dworkin · Misogyny: The Male Malady by David Gilmore
Jowls are available · ‘Second Life’
Diary · Jenny Diski tries to stay awake
Mirror Images · Jenny Diski sees off Piers Morgan
Who wears hats now? · Jenny Diski walks back to the future
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